Getting engaged and married is such an exciting time! One of the first things I started wondering about after getting engaged was the “right” way to wear my engagement and wedding rings. It seems like a simple question, but I quickly realized there are a lot of different opinions and traditions out there. I wanted to do what felt right for me, but I also wanted to understand the history and etiquette behind it all. So, I started my research, and here's what I discovered.
Like many, I assumed there was one definitive “correct” way to wear my rings. I soon realized that wasn't the case. I remember asking my friends and family, and everyone had a slightly different take. Some were adamant about tradition, while others said it was all about personal preference. This led me down a rabbit hole of customs and beliefs, trying to figure out what made the most sense for my situation. I even considered getting a completely different ring to avoid the confusion!
One thing I noticed was how much the order mattered to some people. They would scrutinize photos, and I'd hear things like "Oh, that looks wrong!" or "Why would they do that?" It made me want to understand the origin of these strong feelings.
Through my conversations, I learned that the most common tradition, at least where I live, is to wear the wedding band closest to your heart, with the engagement ring on top. The idea is that the wedding band is the symbol of your marriage and should be closest to your heart. This resonated with me, but I still wanted to explore other options.
I discovered that the order can even vary by culture! For example, in some countries, the wedding ring goes on top of the engagement ring. It’s fascinating how these seemingly small details can hold so much cultural significance. I realized that there's no universal "right" way, and it's really about what feels meaningful to the individual.
After considering all the traditions and opinions, I decided to go with what felt right for me. I tried wearing the wedding band on the bottom and the engagement ring on top, and it felt…right. But then, just out of curiosity, I switched them around. And guess what? It still felt right! Ultimately, I realized that the most important thing is that I love how my rings look and feel on my finger.
Speaking of jewelry that holds special meaning, I also recently discovered a beautiful SumsFashion Earrings. It was exactly what I was looking for to add to my collection.
While thinking about sentimental jewelry, I also came across something quite unique: urn necklaces. These necklaces are designed to hold a small amount of ashes, a lock of hair, or another tiny memento of a loved one. I found one that really caught my eye:
I was searching for a meaningful gift for my brother, who had recently lost his best friend. He has always been into motorcycles and has a very punk style, so when I saw this Stainless Steel Urn Necklace for Ashes Chain with Container Pendant Keepsake Memorial Cremation Men Punk Boy Jewelry Accessories Eagle and Motorcycle I knew it was perfect. The eagle and motorcycle design felt like a fitting tribute to his friend's free spirit. The fact that it could hold a small memento made it even more special.
It's not something I would normally consider, but the idea of having a tangible reminder of someone you've lost, close to your heart, is incredibly comforting. It provided a way for him to keep his friend's memory alive in a personal and discreet way. homepage has many other beautiful pieces. It was a really meaningful gift, and he wears it every day.
Here are a few tips I picked up along the way: