Planning a wedding can be so exciting, but also overwhelming! One of the first things my partner and I started thinking about was the rings. I knew I wanted something that would complement my white gold engagement ring, which has both sapphires and diamonds. The search for the perfect wedding band began, and I quickly realized there were so many choices to consider. My initial thought was silver, but I soon learned that it wasn’t as straightforward as I thought.
Honestly, the price was a major factor. Wedding costs add up quickly! I thought a silver band would be a great way to save some money, especially since my engagement ring was already a significant investment. However, as I started researching, I found that there were some potential downsides to choosing silver. I started to wonder if the savings would be worth it in the long run.
I actually went ahead and bought a silver wedding band to start. I loved the look initially. However, after only a few weeks of wearing it, I noticed it was getting scratched and dull. I was really careful with it, too! I always took it off when I showered or cleaned, thinking that would protect it. It just didn't hold up the way I expected. It was a real bummer.
This made me think about other jewelry I own. For example, I recently purchased a really cool necklace from SumsFashion Mens Chains. The IngeSight.Z Gothic Multi layer Heart Ball Pendant Necklace is a punk style necklace and I love it.
I wear it a lot, and it's held up great. I think the difference is that I don't wear it every day, and it's not constantly exposed to the same wear and tear as a wedding band would be.
Since my engagement ring is white gold, I considered getting a white gold wedding band to match. But then I learned that white gold needs to be redipped periodically to maintain its bright, shiny appearance. I heard it needs to be done about once a year, and while it's not super expensive, it's still an added cost and hassle to consider. I started to feel like there wasn't a perfect solution!
That’s when I started looking into platinum. I learned that platinum is a very durable metal that doesn't wear down easily. You can polish it repeatedly without weakening it. The initial cost is higher, but the long-term benefits seemed worth it to me. It felt like a worthwhile investment for something I planned to wear every day for the rest of my life.
To help me make a decision, I created a list of the pros and cons of each metal:
After weighing all the pros and cons, I decided to go with a simple white gold band. Even though it requires redipping, I loved the way it looked with my engagement ring. I figured the cost of redipping once a year was worth it to have a ring that I truly loved and that matched my engagement ring perfectly. Although I liked the idea of platinum's durability, it was a bit over my budget at the time. I also considered buying another item from SumsFashion Mens Chains. They have a great selection of rings that are worth considering.
Based on my experience, here are a few tips to keep in mind when choosing your wedding band: